Stop Struggling with Your Sin and Kill It!

myswordOne April during my Air Force tour, our squadron commander handed us a goal: a 100% off-duty safety record for the summer. I raised an eyebrow. Our squadron consisted of twentysomethings brandishing motorcycles, ATV’s, jet-skis, and a love of drink. Expecting no off-duty accidents for a whole summer seemed as achievable as deciphering a Newsboys lyric. Did I mention we were based in college-town Phoenix?

Later, that commander visited the flightline and happened to strike up a conversation with my work group. Being a little (too?) bold, I asked if he expected the 100% goal to be reached. His gracious reply:

“Well, what results would I get if I only asked for 80%?”

I am among many Christians struggling with certain sins. (The rest are just being quiet about it.) We sincerely want to please God, cut the garbage out of our lives. The first thing I often say to teens who say they’re struggling is, “Good. Struggle is good. It’s better than surrender.”

But eventually we have to face the results. Longings to become gentler and kinder, with little to show for it. The years of bondage to sexual sin. Constant failed attempts to be more honest. The addictions that beset us. Our flesh is not about to roll over; it weighs us down, and our hearts sink with it.

One day, I heard a talk that transformed my approach to sin.

It was at a workshop for the youth leaders. The speaker told us to stop saying that we were “struggling with sin”. He said that the word “struggling” actually gives sympathy to sin, creates a middle ground where we’re fighting but not winning. “Stop struggling with your sin and kill it!” he said.

It’s one of those simple-but-of-course things. He was right. After years of hard-fought effort to kill an entangling sin, we get beat down. “I’ll never really win,” we mutter. “I guess as long as I’m trying, that’s what counts.” And we settle for a cordial detente, where we’re not quite capitulating but not winning either. A sort of romanticized no-man’s land, where we talk about grace and the dark night of the soul and “the journey and not the destination”.

A land in which the enemy is perfectly happy to dwell.

Contrast this with Romans 8:37:

“No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us.”

Or Ephesians 6:13, 16-17:

“Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand. … In addition to all this, take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming arrows of the evil one. Take the helmet of salvation and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God.”

Do you see the aggression of it? The vigorous intentionality?

“Stop struggling with your sin and kill it!” jolted me awake, made me question the nature of my efforts. Was I really overmatched, or just going marshmallowy with my daily crucifying because I’d come to believe victory was out of reach in this life? Leading me to sin, and thus further entrench the lie, and vicious cycle.

God doesn’t write as if victory is entirely out of reach. He says we should be “able to stand our ground”. It’s so hopeful.

But we have to choose it.

And a shot of gumption towards our sin goes a long way.

It’s not a matter of our strength, but of our attitude. We have to hate the stuff. Sharing God’s aggression toward sin can make a huge difference. It was the push I needed to start making real headway.

Of course, the first result of that change is that we realize we kinda like the cordial detente. The tempter summons reinforcements. “Sure, you could defeat that sin in prayer. But it’s a hassle, and you really don’t want to.”

That commander of mine wanted 100% from his troops. So does God (Matt. 5:48). I’m like, “100? I might have 30% in play on any given day.” Partially because of my flesh, partially because I’d been deceived about how much victory was available. Saboteurs to my left and right. The sword of the Spirit and the shield of faith gather dust in my closet, and then I wonder why I don’t have victory.

Enough.

A victory mindset leaves no room for lies or willful weakness. It makes you choose. We need to hear this. We’re a people who procrastinate, slash other people with our tongues until we get our coffee, and brag about it with Facebook memes as the world goes to pot around us. What if we could be different?

The battle may take a while. Some victories, especially over addictions, are processes.

But that is not our excuse to linger in the valley. Your fruits will waver if your goal does. Our eyes must stay on holiness. God can get us there.

Stop struggling with your sin and kill it.

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12 thoughts on “Stop Struggling with Your Sin and Kill It!

  1. Very interesting. Your post reminds me of something. I’ve always had an issue with calling ourselves sinners. I know we will sin, but the idea of constantly calling myself a sinner made me feel like it’s okay if I sin. So I stopped using that term a while ago. Yes I will sin. Yes I do sin. But I’m not comfortable with the title of sinner. Does that make sense?

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    • Could definitely be another way of wording the trap I’ve described, yeah. My influences include teachers (e.g. Neil T. Anderson) who point out Paul labeling believers as SAINTS WHO SIN, not sinners, and hinting at a new nature that battles the first. It still fits 1 John 1, for saints can and do still choose the old man.

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  2. Thank you, Brandon Adams, for writing such an insightful post! I have suffered from the addiction of sexual lust since a young age and for the most part the Lord has healed me of the addiction but the sexual desire still lingers behind at times and your post has inspired me not just to fight it but kill it! Thank you, again I have a whole new perspective on sin and how it needs to killed off.

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  3. Brandon, thank you for sharing this. The keyword is “mindset.” Paul wrote the early Christians to consider that we have the mind of Christ. And to Timothy, “We have received the spirit of power, love, and a sound mind.” In 2 Corinthians 10:4-5 “We have divine power to destroy strongholds, casting down imaginations,…. bringing every thought in captivity to Christ.” Meditation on the truths of God’s Word sets our minds on things above, not on things on the earth. Also Romans 12:1-2. The same power of God’s Word was Jesus’ weapon.
    I am excited when I read of what you young Christians are about, and encouraging each other. You make our generation proud, and give us reasons for joy and praising our Lord. 🙂
    The Lord continue to bless your life as a sentinel and a soldier of the cross.

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  4. Wow Brandon, another great post. It was so in line with our message tonight on understanding and practicing repentance. The pastor said we hear a lot of talk about faith, but repentance is almost never heard of even in the mainstream of churches. He described six things that Thomas Watson, a Puritan preacher described were necessary components of repentance: 1. The sight of sin, 2. Sorrow for sin 3. Confession of sin 4. Shame for sin 5. Hatred of sin and 6. Turning from sin. He pointed to David’s penitent spirit in Psalms 51 as an example. Wow. I am going to share your post on Facebook. This was really helpful.

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