A childhood bouncing between foster homes, never once getting to stay and just be “gotten”.
The friend whose sibling just stopped talking.
Years of chronic pain from, of all things, falling out of a chair wrong.
This week has been a rough reminder of the valley through which an entire generation is slowly plodding en masse. My friends’ stories are piling up.
Feeling invisible because your siblings on either side get more attention.
Miscarriage.
An occupational disease from an employer that obscured working conditions to save money.
Loneliness – not just that of being single, but of being single without family or friends because of something “off” in the personality.
A denomination shifting doctrine (or shifting back) and leaving some behind, unsure of their place in God’s kingdom despite how hard they’ve served.
Being attuned to poverty in every direction and unable to stop it all.
Coming home from the battlefield and wanting to end it all because of the carnage witnessed and the brothers left behind.
A knot of emotion, manifesting physically in the stomach, that just will not stop screaming lies hour after hour, week after week, year after year no matter what medication is tried.
And to top it all off, a Christianity that tells them – truthfully – that God has no obligation to make it end.
I would not pretend that previous generations have lived and died on a flowery bed of ease, but this is something else. Millennials are the grandchildren of the sixties. Enough said. Compound familial brokenness upon itself down through enough generations and you get…well, what we’re looking at now. God did say it would get worse towards the end. Even if that doesn’t explain all the trials I mentioned, it does make them harder to undergo.
And instead of love, only judgment often comes – “why can’t they just snap out of it?” Things like the recently revealed college admission scandals don’t help. The character problems of some give the entire group a bad name. Some of our pain, to be sure, is on us.
It’s tough to impart spiritual truth to millennials. Did you know that words like “glory” or “salvation” will shut some millennials down almost instantly? They’re priceless words, but the only thing they see is stern, detached buzzwords from a previous generation who don’t get what they’re going through. No, that’s not fair. No, I’m not willing to leave those words behind. But it highlights the difficulty of revealing Jesus to this group. Most want nothing to do with a God of pain.
We’re not dumb. We’re not (all) entitled. We’re not (all) seeking a victim complex.
But the swells do keep coming, and we’re tired of getting rolled.
A speaker I once heard said, “I believe the healing God wants to do in this generation is emotional.” Perhaps hearts, not issues of blood or withered hands, are what Jesus will pursue this millennium.
And perhaps we can be part of it. Consider God’s infinite patience for any person, his ability to convert even Paul to the side of the kingdom. If we simply embrace, listen, forgive, and weep with those who weep. Those are the foundation to the trusses of deep spiritual truth.
A bruised reed He will not break and a smoldering wick He will not extinguish; He will faithfully bring forth justice. (Isaiah 42:3)
Brandon these are great words for all generations. What it all comes down to Jesus’ final commandment / to love one another. One that bond is broken, everything else is pointless. Listening is a missing link in communication. Actually hearing someone’s voice and responding vocally is so much better than the printed word, except for the word of God. You’re doing what you should do with your friends by listening and being compassionate. Keep fighting for your generation as well. You are the future of this country . I know there are many like you out there.
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Thanks for swinging by again, as always.
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You’re one of my favorite millennials❤️
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Oh boy, you must not have many examples in your life! 😉
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Lol my grandkids and a few at church.’most of my circle are those over 70.
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Superb work speaking directly to my heart to serve and the confusion over why “I can’t go there.” Starting (yet) again now with fresh perspective.
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It’s tough work.
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And it is great work.
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Being a baby boomer, I feel sad and somewhat ashamed knowing it was my “if it feels good do it” generation that instigated a lot of today’s angst and disillusionment. We abandoned God’s laws because we were sure we “knew better.” We obviously didn’t. Yet all I can do is sow seeds of hope via spreading the Good News and pray that God will raise a better harvest than we did…
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Good insight, though I would stress that I know we are ultimately responsible before God for our own lives.
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Thanks for remembering those who too many have forgotten. God bless!
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You too, Nancy!
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I am completely ignorant of what Millennial’s are facing, feeling, experiencing. I have two sons, 28 and 24. I work with Millenials. Your post put me in shock. I would like to know more.
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I am glad to say that not all millennials face tall obstacles, but this generation does seem known for steeper effects from compounded generational issues.
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Wise words, my friend. When I’m feeling the “weight” of the world around me, I listen to “Worn” by Tenth Avenue North. Praying for you!
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I’ll have to check that one out.
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